Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century by Barbara Carrellas
Tantra, reimagined for real life.
 
In Urban Tantra, sex educator Barbara Carrellas brings ancient tantric principles into the modern world with an inclusive, practical, and pleasure-forward approach. Drawing from her acclaimed workshops, this guide offers more than 100 techniques to help readers expand sensation, deepen connection, and explore erotic energy with intention.
 
Queer-affirming and consent-centered, this is Tantra without the gatekeeping. Whether you are exploring solo or with partners, Carrellas provides accessible tools grounded in breath, presence, and embodied awareness.
 
Inside you will explore:
Foundations of modern Tantra
Breath and energy practices
Erotic massage and conscious touch
Solo and partnered techniques
Tantric approaches to BDSM and ritual
Warm, approachable, and deeply empowering, Urban Tantra is a go-to classic for anyone ready to bring more intention and full-body awareness into their pleasure practice.
 
Perfect for:
✨ Tantra-curious beginners
✨ Somatic pleasure explorers
✨ Queer and nontraditional relationship folks
✨ Anyone craving more presence in their play